Hey! Sorry for responding so late dear! And no problem! I’m glad you liked it, it really brightens up my day :) And I’m sorry about not having them over there, but never give up! You can find that special someone whether they’re Asian or not! But do update me on you, I would love to hear about what you find or who you find. FIGHTING! :D
Aw! Thank you! x,3 And so are you darling :)
So recently, I got a few messages asking about how I feel on Asian Men / Black Women together, and or do I like it, my feelings, etc.
Well, when it comes to other race, people get a bit touchy on the whole subject.
I’m not saying that my opinion will change anything, or even help someone. ((If it does, I’m happy))
Well, firstly, I’m an Asian male myself.
Secondly, I think dating out of your own race is really a good thing! I really do support AMBW, and I honestly hope to see it more of it.
I find it beautiful, dating other races. And it doesn’t have to necessarily be black females! But for me, that’s what I’d normally prefer.
It’s something about the way they carry themselves, the passion they have, and just how unique and beautiful they’re (on the inside and out). I mean, other people may have that in them, but I just find something different! It’s a good thing to be honest. Not only do you get to learn about different cultures, but you learn how to love and expand how far you date.
And I wasn’t raised up to like everyone. So before you say, “He must of hanged around these groups, or this neighborhood.” My parents were pretty strict on who I could see, and what I could do.
In all honesty, I love black females (please don’t get offended). I’m not going to say every Asian guy will, but I know that there’s some who do. I remember when I first asked out a black female I liked in my middle school days, I was pretty nervous. I mean, I flirted and did this and that but, I was always wondering, “What if she doesn’t like me?” Or, “Does she see me as a friend? Or maybe she’s confused from the signs I’m giving her?” , “What if she’s not use to the attention of my race?” Or even, the stereotypes people say.
But, I push the fear aside and asked her out. And to my surprise, she liked me back! ((-claps-)) My father however, didn’t like it. But I didn’t care about what he wanted, it was about my happiness. As for my beautiful baby, we lasted for about a good year, and must I say, I still love her. (We’re still close friends)
Most black female think that some of us Asian males won’t like them, or might not even look at them! But that’s completely wrong! From my experience, it mostly deals with parents, the background or place you come from, shyness, or simply confusion that stops someone.. But.. Hell, you have to learn how to take the risk to do or get what you desire! Don’t let anyone hold you back!
I feel happy, knowing that (some) people step out of their boundaries to date other races. In my eyes, it doesn’t matter about the skin tone, or anyone else. It matters about how you feel, and how that person feel. If you know/feel it’s love, then go take the chance.
Be like Romeo and Juliette! …Except the part where ya know… I mean… You get what I mean right?
Step out of that wall you built around you and just go for it.
Y O L O. ((I know some people get tired of hearing that but, it’s true lololol._. ))
To my Asian brothers, don’t be afraid to take the risk! Don’t let anyone hold you back, don’t let anyone say you can’t! Trust in your heart, and your self! There’s beautiful black, white, any other colors of the fucking rainbow, that feels the same way as you! Even if you get rejected sometimes, or come across that bad person, don’t go portraying and thinking that all races are the same!
You never know what’s going to happen, the life changing experience and the happiness that could come!
Shit, AMBW ftw!
Sorry for bothering you all with this rant. But I’m out~
Of course xDD But what shall I call you mysterious person c,:
-DIES- I loves chu <3 O3O Let’s be friends c,:
Where you’re watching Sistar’s and 4minute’s comeback live.
And you cannot contain yourself.